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FET: Connect, Date & Explore

BEING NORMAL IS BORING...

Ideawise Ltd.
Deletion (dev says) — Developer says you can request data deletion
Google Play rating4.2★21.5K ratings
PriceFreeIn-app purchases
Age17+Store age rating
CategorySocial
DeveloperIdeawise Ltd.

At a glance

Full report

From our automated analysis, 15 Oct 2026. Every label links to its evidence in the full report below.

This analysis describes version 15.0.0 of the app, analyzed 2026-10-15 . The app may have changed since.

The store currently lists version 16.0.0, updated 2026-10-14.

The app has been updated since this analysis. The findings on this page describe version 15.0.0, not the version now listed on the store.

The developer’s release notes for the newer versions, where we hold them, are in Versions and dates analysed.

Preview

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Store screenshots supplied by the developer.

About this app

BEING NORMAL IS BORING...

Tired of standard dating apps? On FET, we celebrate diversity and openness. Whether you're curious or experienced with alternative lifestyles, you’ll find a welcoming and inclusive community. Connect with others and discover a new way of meeting people!

FIND YOUR TRIBE

New to the FET lifestyle or experienced? FET is a safe place to explore and learn about unique interests. We support our community in sharing knowledge and building connections.

EXPLORE NEW CONNECTIONS

FET is the place to learn more about alternative lifestyles, with events and meet-ups for everyone. Seek out community connections or discover local gatherings tailored to your interests.

EXPRESS YOUR TRUE SELF

Share your story, upload photos, and connect with like-minded members. Show the community who you are and find your place in our welcoming space.…

From the developer’s store description.

For developers and the curious

The full report

The evidence, sources, measurements and versions behind every label above.

Findings and evidence

1 published · 2 shown, not confirmed

Positives 1

Specific evidence of a useful property, within the stated scope.

Developer says data deletion can be requested

Measured

The developer's store data-safety disclosure states that data deletion can be requested; we have not seen a deletion control in the app's own text

Sources
The store listing
Agreement
A measured fact from one deterministic, checkable source.
Where measured
From the Google Play listing
Definition

The developer's data-safety disclosure on the store states that users can request deletion of their data, or the app's own text offers a way to delete the account. This restates what the developer declares; it is not a test of whether deletion works. Apple publishes no equivalent disclosure, so on an Apple-only listing only the app's own text can support it.

Open evidence

One source only — shown, not confirmed 2

Open observations that have not cleared the evidence bar.

Aggressive ad load

One source only

Aggressive ad load: raised by 12 distinct reviewers (2.3% of 525 reviews scanned)

Sources
User reviews
Agreement
Only one kind of source so far. Shown, not counted.
Where measured
From Google Play reviews

This observation has not cleared the required evidence standard.

Definition

Advertising volume or placement that interrupts normal use: ads between every action, unskippable or forced full-screen ads.

Open evidence

Paywall blocks the basics

One source only

Paywall blocks the basics: raised by 16 distinct reviewers (3.0% of 525 reviews scanned)

Sources
User reviews
Agreement
Only one kind of source so far. Shown, not counted.
Where measured
From Google Play reviews

This observation has not cleared the required evidence standard.

Definition

The core of the app — not extras — sits behind payment, or previously-free function moved behind a paywall.

Open evidence

Nothing was published as a thing to watch for in this assessment. That is not a finding that nothing is wrong with the app.

What reviewers report

525 reviews read · 2 review-based observations

525 reviews read for this analysis. Each observation keeps the sample and store it was based on.

Aggressive ad load

Shown, not confirmed

1) The app presents itself as a dating app. it's not. 2) The UI is terrible. What do any of the buttons mean? 3) I set what I'm looking for and I'm shown people *far* outside those parameters. 4) Absolutely any interaction requires I pay…

1★ · Google Play · 2026-10-08

this probably the worst dating or connection app ive ever seen. literally everything is behind a paywall. the ads are ridiculous. Dont bother, get fetlife or tinder, literally anything else.

1★ · Google Play · 2026-09-14

The app has Ads that pop up every other click that take over your phone unless you shut down the app. It's a scam app don't waste your time.

2★ · Google Play · 2026-09-13

Paywall blocks the basics

Shown, not confirmed

This app has gone down hill fast. Full of features locked behind a pay wall, can't even verify that your 18+ without paying for a subscription and if you're in a state that blocks 18+ anything, your essentially SOL and cannot access the…

1★ · Google Play · 2026-08-06

Features locked behind a paywall. Bot accounts everywhere. Paid subscription doesn't guarantee you can message everyone. Some profiles ask for a gift that ends up costing money in order to message them. App has too many bugs. Look…

1★ · Google Play · 2026-08-04

worst dating app I've tried. you have to pay to use basic features, can't message anyone without paying. adds take over and aren't skippabe or short. ill be deleting it

1★ · Google Play · 2026-10-01

A sampled review illustrates one person’s experience. It does not establish a finding on its own.

Measurements

5 measured · 3 not assessed

Supporting measurements. They are not a complete list of possible harms or positives. “Not assessed” means we could not measure it — never zero, never a pass.

From store data and reviews

Developer replies to reviews
Replies to at least 1 review in 20
Price in the store description
States no price and billing period
Cancelling, in the store description
Does not say how to cancel
Themes reported by reviewers
2 themes reported
Counted from the reviews we have read for this app. "No theme reported" means no theme reached our reporting threshold — it is not a finding that nothing is wrong with this app, and we do not say it is.
Five-star share of ratings
Under 65% five-star
Arithmetic on the stores' own published rating counts. It says nothing about why the ratings fall where they do.

In the app package we scanned

No package has been scanned for this app, so nothing is published about what it ships. That is an absence of evidence, not a finding.

Sensitive permissions
Not assessed
No package has been scanned for this app
Analytics or tracking SDKs in the scanned package
Not assessed
No package has been scanned for this app
Advertising SDKs in the scanned package
Not assessed
No package has been scanned for this app

Measurement vocabulary 1.4 · how these are measured

Versions and dates analysed

Assessed 15 Oct 2026

This analysis describes version 15.0.0 of the app, analyzed 2026-10-15 . The app may have changed since.

The store currently lists version 16.0.0, updated 2026-10-14.

The app has been updated since this analysis. The findings on this page describe version 15.0.0, not the version now listed on the store.

Release notes for the newer versions, in the developer’s own words:

Version 16.0.0 · 2026-10-14

No release notes were provided for this version.

Store update history

Each store’s release notes, as the developer wrote them. They are the developer’s words, not ours.

Google Play

Version 16.0.0 · 2026-10-14

No release notes were provided for this version.

Version 15.0.0 · 2026-08-20

No release notes were provided for this version.

Assessment record

Status
Automated analysis
App identifier
fet-google-com-fet-ideawise
Assessment date
15 Oct 2026
Sources used
3 independent signals: user reviews, the store listing and the store privacy disclosure
Reviews read
525
Package examined
No package scan
Measurement vocabulary
1.4
Human inspection
Not completed

Assessed 2026-10-15 from 525 user reviews, the store listing and its privacy label. We have not scanned the app's package, so nothing on this page was read from inside the app itself.

How this page was produced

Analyzed 2026-10-15 Version analyzed: 15.0.03 independent signals525 reviews scannedConfidence: HighNot human-reviewedVocabulary v1.13Methodology v1.3
Signals run: user reviews, the store listing and the store privacy disclosure. Not yet checked: SDKs in the app package, the app's own on-screen text and the app manifest.

Store facts

Google Play

What the stores publish. Store ratings are the stores’ numbers, not Appworthy’s, and are never averaged across stores.

Google Play

Store rating
4.15 ★ · 21,539 ratings
Version
16.0.0
Updated
14 Oct 2026
Price
Free · In-app purchases
Age rating
17+
Size
Not supplied
Open in Google Play
Developer
Ideawise Ltd.
Category
Social
Listing price
Free · In-app purchases

Purchases the store lists

 What this app sells
Google Play doesn’t publish per-purchase prices, so this list covers the other store only.

Method and limits

What this report can and cannot show

How the automated analysis works

This assessment is produced automatically. Three independent signals are read — user reviews, the store listing and the store privacy disclosure — and each candidate finding is filed under the sources that support it.

No charge stands on one kind of evidence — with one published exception. A finding is either a measured fact that anyone can reproduce (an ad SDK is in the package; every subscription bills weekly; the privacy label omits a tracker we can see), or it is an interpretation — and an interpretation needs independent sources to agree before it reaches the catch list. The exception is a harm only users can see: a charge may publish from reviews alone, as “Reported by N users”, once enough reviewers raise it to clear that charge’s own published bar. That agreement rule is what replaced the human reviewer, not a model’s confidence.

There is no overall score, on purpose. A 0–99 number was published here until 2026-09-15. It was withdrawn because it discriminated too weakly to be the instrument — 44.7% of every pair of apps tied — and because a single number is a verdict where a count is an observation. What publishes instead is a row of measurements, each of which says what was counted and, where we could not look, says that instead.

Findings under One source only are real reports we do not stand behind as findings. They are shown because withholding them entirely would hide a genuine complaint, and labelled because publishing them as charges would be an accusation off a single source.

Limits of this report

  • A package scan is static. It identifies code and text in one Android build. It does not measure a live ad session, test a deletion request, or count the steps needed to cancel.
  • Reviews keep their sample. A review-only charge shows distinct reviewers, the share and the sample size, and is published only once it clears that label’s published threshold. Calibration labels are machine-drafted and not yet confirmed by a person.
  • Not assessed is a state. It is never a zero and never a pass.
  • A missing label is not a clean bill of health. It means the evidence did not support one, not that the app is problem-free.
Not yet human-reviewed. A hands-on test can confirm or contradict a finding and adds its own measurements; it does not change a measurement row. Hands-on inspections are not yet open.

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